Find Your Path: Curated Resources for Questioning Women
Feeling unsure about your attraction? This curated space is designed to support your journey. We've gathered reliable guides, validating communities, and insightful media to help you explore your identity with confidence and clarity.
Start Here: Practical Guides
These guides address the common questions that arise during self-discovery. From understanding the nuances of attraction to exploring concepts like 'comp-het,' they provide a solid foundation for your reflections.
Watch & Listen
Hearing others' stories can be incredibly validating. This collection features friendly explainers, powerful talks, and honest podcasts from women who've walked a similar path, offering perspective and a sense of connection.
L is for Lesbian! - LGBT: QUEER KID STUFF
The Basics of LGBTQ - Professor Pride
LGBTQA+ Basics Training
'Visibilising and Usualising' the LGBTQ+ Community - TEDx
Lesbi-Honest: Candid Convos With Later-in-Life Lesbians
Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
Support Communities
You don't have to figure this out alone. Joining a community of women with shared experiences provides a safe space to ask questions, share feelings, and find belonging among peers who truly understand.
Hands-on Tools & Apps
Ready to connect with others or find community? These apps are built for and by the queer community, offering platforms for dating, friendship, and social connection tailored to your needs.
Deep Dives & Books
For those who want to delve deeper, these books offer profound insights. From personal memoirs to practical guides, they provide in-depth perspectives on lesbian identity, coming out, and building a fulfilling life.
Explore Your Feelings Further with the Lesbian Test
These resources provide context, but true insight comes from self-reflection. Our supportive test is a private, gentle way to process your own thoughts and feelings.
Start the Lesbian TestFor Exploration, Not Diagnosis
These resources are intended to support your personal journey of self-exploration. They are not a substitute for professional guidance from a therapist or counselor. Sexuality is personal and can be fluid; this information is for educational purposes to aid your reflection, not to assign a label.
Help Us Improve This Collection
Our goal is to create a living library of support. If you've found a resource that was meaningful to you — a book, podcast, or community — that isn't listed here, please contact us. Your recommendation can help someone else on their path.